Summary: Be a Friend
This poem is about the importance of being a good friend, and more
broadly—a good person. The speaker tells us that money and glory are not
important—it is more important to be cheerful, helpful, kind and generous.
Friendship simply means ignoring a friend’s mistakes and encouraging her
or him. The speaker also explains how rewarding it is to be a friend. If we
put our efforts into being a good friend than into being successful or rich,
we shall have friends, not just neighbours, and we will actually feel richer
with treasures like love and affection.
This is a motivational poem as it tries to inspire the reader to be a good
human being. It tells us of the simple things we can do in order to be a good
friend, and it teaches the importance of qualities like kindness, generosity
and sympathy. It explains not only how to be loyal to our friends, but also
how to make new friends. The qualities mentioned in the poem can be
developed by anyone—young or old, woman or man. This makes it a very
universal poem, understandable by everyone. Also, by addressing the
reader directly as ‘you’, the speaker seems to have a direct conversation
with the reader. He seems to encourage the reader, and thus he himself
behaves like a good friend to the reader. The point of view is that of a
mature person who has learned important lessons through observation
and experience. The poem is written using American English.
POEM BE A FRIEND
A. 1. According to the speaker, money and glory are not necessary to be a friend.
2. Someone who has a sunny disposition or a cheerful nature is friendly and nice. He or she can make
friends with others easily. It is easier to talk to, laugh with and be with such a person.
3. Someone who is unbefriended has lost his friends. We can help such a person by being kind to
him and helping him. We need to be ready to give or lend him what he needs.
4. The four duties of friendship are to ignore small mistakes of a friend, to appreciate the honest
efforts of a friend, to encourage a friend when he is trying to do the right thing, and to be sorry for
a friend who is sad.
5. Self-endeavour means to try to do something for ourselves. Friendship means trying to do
something for others—for a friend. Clever people try to get things for themselves. They may even
earn a lot of money for themselves. But a true friend tries to help others and earns thanks and love.
These things are not equal to money, but they are greater than money.
6. a. If we simply live and work with each other, then we are neighbours. However, if we help each
other and work for each other, we can also be friends. That way, we can really care for each
other. So we can have friends instead of just neighbours.
b. We can be rich by being friends because being a good friend brings us rewards like love,
affection, trust and respect, which are far more valuable than costly things.
B. Suggested answers (accept any logical answer):
1. According to the speaker, the qualities of kindness, helpfulness and patience are important to be a
friend. It also helps to be cheerful, affectionate and sympathetic.
2. This statement means that there is nothing difficult or complicated about friendship. Any two
people, who are nice and kind to each other, who care for and help each other, can be friends.
BE A FRIEND POEM
A. Answer in brief.
What effort should a person take to retain good friends?
Ans: A person should be kind and caring and help another in difficult times. We should be ready to
give a helping hand or lend without any hesitation. One can easily win a friend by being open and
unselfish.
B. Answer in detail.
How can one make friendship easy to maintain?
Ans: Friendship, according to the speaker, is simple. We should know how to ignore the small
mistakes of a friend and make her/him comfortable and not let her/him feel guilty. When a friend
honestly tries to do something good or interesting, we should appreciate the efforts. These qualities
will earn us friends forever and we can maintain such friendships with ease.
C. Read the lines and answer the questions.
The pay is bigger
(Though not written by a figure)
Than is earned by people clever
a. What is the pay the speaker mentions in the above lines?
b. Is the pay in the form of money?
c. How would one be paid?
Ans: a. The pay the speaker talks about is the result of the hard work done to be a good friend.
b. No, the pay is not money but good friends.
c. One would be paid in the form of cherishing memories of a good friendship.
D. Answer in detail. (Think and answer)
Write briefly about the theme of the poem.
Ans: [Free response] The theme of the poem is about the importance of being a good friend. The
speaker in the poem encourages us to be kind and compassionate and be helpful. In return to all the
efforts, one would acquire the wealth that one gets by having many sincere and good friends. The
speaker says it does not cost any money to be a good friend. We just need to be cheerful and should
be willing to be supportive. The speaker wants us to understand that the benefit of being a good
friend is far more than the benefits of possessing plenty of wealth.
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